Why would anyone want to be friends with someone who constantly trolls your social media posts?
That’s the question of the day.
It all started with this photo:
Innocent enough, right?
I happened to mention I was eating a low-carb lunch and watching Frozen 2 and cuddling my German Shepherd, when someone I know decided to inform me that my meal was NOT low-carb.
Look, I said low-carb, not no-carb. I understand the ranch sauce may have some form of corn syrup and yes, fruit has sugar and yes, dairy has sugar. But I assure you, it is way healthier than what I really wanted which was chips and queso.
I found these awesome cheese wraps in the KETO section of a supermarket and have been using them as my go-to for lunch. I’m attempting to cut wheat out, because, no matter how you slice it, wheat is inflammatory and it is a start. I took a little knife and spread some chive cream cheese on it, squirted the Smokehouse Ranch, added the deli ham slice, threw a couple of pieces of baby spinach and cut scallions, and then added a side of a few grapes and slices of apple. I was full, satisfied, and guess what folks – I’ve been losing weight.
So for someone to just try to call me out was just… one of those moments when you go, “Really?”
It is not just that, it is other stuff. This particular “friend” always has something to say about something that I post. Once it was about a certain children’s club and another time it was about whether kids should go to school. Clearly we line up on different sides of the equation politically, but really, that is okay. What is not okay is constantly giving me grief on my pages.
I often attribute it to someone visiting your home. Do you come in and begin arguing with your host? Or even worse, what if the person begins to argue with your friends? (Aka comments,) that’s just the straw that broke the camel’s back.
This begs the questions, “If you have such differing opinions and you constantly check someone else, should you remain “friends” with that person?”
I think the best thing to do is simply one of two things: Ignore the comment or respond neutrally, but in a way that says, “Thank you for sharing, but I’m good.” Luckily, FB has a new feature where you can “take a break” from someone. What that means is that person will only see public posts that you post. You can also unfollow them. All good options.
Share with me if you think it is okay to troll a friend? And if so, why? Maybe you are well-intention-ed, or maybe there is something else? I don’t know. Help me understand.
So I decided to finally go for a long walk with the dog.
This should have been okay, but man oh man was it hilarious. Here is my reaction and why it was funny:
All of it seemed a good idea and the dog did get a really good workout, as I did, but man… I’m still paying the price for it. My KNEE. Though I am taking new medicine that helps, I basically threw myself back into inflammation hell. The Ortho doc TOLD ME NOT TO WALK. Did I listen? Nope.
Here’s hoping the week goes off without a hitch and my September is a golden beauty!
One thought on “Trolling Your Friends”
It is absolutely NOT ok to troll a friend’s post. I think you analogy was spot on. I can definitely see that you are doing what works for YOU on YOUR journey. And it’s working. Social media seems to the place where people think they can say, (or comment) whatever they want. I can’t stand people like that. And social media is FULL of them!